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Manual Suggestions

Personal wishes tell your partner what would make you happy. Create them in My wishes with a title, description and optional photo or written reward.

One shared activity flow​

  1. Create a wish. It appears in your unfinished wishes and your partner’s Discover list. Creation is silent.
  2. Your partner chooses Save for later. It moves to their For later list. You can see that they chose it. No calendar date is scheduled and no notification is sent.
  3. Your partner does the activity and marks it Done. It leaves the active lists and appears in activity history, including your wishes history. You receive a completion notification.
  4. You may Say thanks. Send 1–3 hearts with an optional message, once per activity and subject to the usual heart rules. Your partner is notified. This is optional: the activity is already complete.
  5. If you wrote a reward, you may offer or decline it. It stays hidden from your partner until offered. Offering notifies them; declining is silent. This decision is independent of sending hearts.

There is no extra completion step after Done. Thanks and rewards describe a completed activity without changing its visible stage. Dismissing a reminder sends nothing and leaves the activity in history.

Finding and managing wishes​

My wishes shows only your unfinished requests, grouped by those still available and those chosen by your partner. Its history contains completed wishes. Main activity history includes completed AI and manual activities.

Your partner uses the same add, remove, complete and thank-you actions as for AI ideas. Removing a wish from For later makes it available again, without deleting it or notifying anyone. You can delete your own pending wishes after confirmation. Chosen and completed wishes cannot be deleted from this active screen.

Limits and regeneration​

Creating a wish uses neither an AI generation nor an AI place in For later. New AI batches never replace personal wishes. See AI Suggestions for generation allowances and capacity. There is no bookmark action or separate favorites list: choose ideas with Save for later.

Optional photo and image analysis​

Choose Upload photo or Take photo when creating a wish. Preview, replace or remove the single optional photo before saving. ReKindle corrects orientation and removes camera metadata before storing it.

Your partner can choose Find this product to identify a product and get a web search link. This optional action uses its own image-analysis allowance, separate from suggestion generation. See pricing and your in-app allowance.

Example​

You create “Go to the cinema” with the optional reward “I’ll cook dinner.” Your partner adds it to For later silently, then marks it Done after your outing. It immediately appears in history. You can send hearts, offer dinner, do both or do neither.

See AI Suggestions, Notifications and Heart Bank.

Open an unsaved wish and tap Edit to change its text, reward or photo. You can edit only your own wishes. Once your partner has saved it, its details stay unchanged.